Embracing the Chaos: Life as a WFM Mom with Style

Being a full-time work-from-home mom is like a never-ending marathon, and believe me, I've got my running shoes on! My days are a whirlwind of tasks – from leading my team with enthusiasm to juggling multiple projects, all while proudly being mom to my energetic boys.p

Picture this: cooking, cleaning, laundry, and school prep all thrown into the mix. It's a recipe for chaos, right? Well, not exactly.

Here's the surprising twist: when my sons are peacefully asleep, I morph into a night shift ninja, tackling my work with determination.

My day starts early, a few hours before midnight. I prep for work while ensuring the boys are ready for school. Morning brings work mode with deadlines and meetings, but I've mastered this balancing act. A well-structured routine keeps it all on track.

When the boys return from school, it's time to pivot once more for some quality time then I’m off to bed.

Is it overwhelming? Absolutely. But here's the deal – I'm not just surviving; I'm thriving.
So, to all the work-from-home wonder womoms out there – you're not alone in this crazy balancing act. It's wild, chaotic, and sometimes just plain nuts, but it's also incredibly rewarding. Keep being awesome!

Boundaries Matter

We’re in the arena of emotional wellbeing, armed with the shield of self-preservation. It's not about barricading ourselves from connection, but about setting boundaries that shield our hearts from unnecessary pain.

We've learned through life's twists and turns that not everyone who knocks on our door brings goodwill. It's a matter of honor, of knowing our worth, and protecting the sanctuary of our emotions.

By guarding against hurt and desertion, we're not shutting out love; we're inviting in the genuine, the kind-hearted, and the steadfast. We're saying, "If you want a place in my life, show me you'll treat it with respect and care." 🌟🤝

Rally behind the wisdom of boundaries, let's celebrate the strength in guarding our hearts, and let's champion the power of saying "no more" to those who won't honor our worth. Are you part of the league of boundary-defenders, and march forward with self-respect as armor? Remember, there's always strength in self preservation.

Heart Code Matters

Ground rules – treat hearts like precious gems! Don't play games, don't be reckless, and most importantly, don't let anyone mess with yours. Spread love, not heartbreak! No Recklessness Allowed!

We're talking a language understood by the bravest, the ones who choose respect over recklessness. You see, each heartbeat is a rhythm, a symphony of emotions and dreams. So, let's make a pact: no more emotional roller coasters, no more reckless rides.

Imagine a world where hearts are treated like the most delicate treasures – where honesty and kindness reign supreme. And guess what? It starts with us. Together, we craft a heart-guarding shield, a force field against negativity, and a haven for love and understanding.

Spread this Heart Code far and wide. Let it be a lighthouse for those lost in the stormy seas of relationships. Together, we redefine love as an art of care, not chaos, and create a world where hearts are cherished like rare jewels. #HeartGuardians #SpreadTheLove #HeartCodeMatters

The Sunday Currently vol. 6

CURRENTLY 

Reading

Onboarding documents from our Therapists. I've been assigned to work on our Therapy account alongside my main role in Customer Service. This is a fantastic opportunity to contribute to our ever-evolving company. 

Writing

a simplified Therapist Progress Roadmap.

Listening

to the soothing hum of the air conditioner.

Thinking

of planning out my agenda for next week. Luckily, Monday's a holiday, so the kiddos get a break from school. I'm already brainstorming how to prep their school lunches and snacks for the remaining four days. 😅🍱📅

Smelling

Coconut Passion. I asked my sister to grab me a Victoria's Secret Coconut Passion fragrance mist during her visit to the mall about two weeks ago. Life's been so hectic that I haven't even had a moment to unbox my treats. Oh, and I couldn't resist grabbing a travel-sized pack and fragrance mist of Bare Vanilla! I really love fragrance scents.

Wishing

I've been dreaming of a family vacation abroad, but life's been a whirlwind lately. The kids are back to in-person school, and I'm swamped with work. There's just so much to juggle right now. 

Hoping

to win the lottery though I haven't even buy one. It would be a dream come true, allowing me to enjoy life without constantly stressing over expenses. It's one of the challenges of freelancing; as a contractor, you can lose your contract at any time due to unforeseen events. The uncertainty keeps you on your toes; you never really know what's coming. 

Wearing

a white "Be Still" shirt paired with Aztec-print boxer shorts.

Loving

the food supplement drink I picked up a few weeks back. Avocado Freshies and Coffee Bean flavors are my absolute favorites! 🥑☕😋

Wanting

to teleport and whisk my family away to Tokyo, Japan. A visit to Tokyo Disneyland would be incredible; my kiddos would be over the moon and would absolutely adore it! Not sure where that idea came from (lol), but it sounds amazing! 💖

Needing

A whole week of paid time off sounds fantastic, doesn't it? Yet, as a freelancer, my income is tied to the hours I put in - no work, no pay. It would be amazing to be recognized with a week off for a job well done, or even better a salary boost. I can't recall the last time I had one; I think it was back in 2020.

Now, don't get me wrong, I'm grateful to my company, and I genuinely love my job. It's just that a little recognition would mean the world. I wholeheartedly believe I've earned it.

Feeling

immensely grateful for every blessing that comes our family's way, regardless if big or small. It's heartwarming to witness my kids growing into responsible individuals. 

Just a few days ago, I discovered that my 10-year-old son has set up his own alarm to get ready for school so they won't be late. It's a significant milestone. He's making impressive progress by actively engaging in group activities and showing initiative in attending tutor classes to get help with his assignments. To be honest, it's becoming a challenge I can't handle alone. With my nighttime work schedule while they sleep, and continuing to work until they head to school, there's barely any time left for me to assist with their assignments. Thank God for their tutor class.

I'm confident my youngest son will find his way too. What truly matters is that they're developing their personalities and becoming more responsible each day. For me, that's more than enough... 🙏💕👦📚

Spreading Smiles Through Unexpected Heartfelt Messages

I've got an awesome story to share that put a big old grin on my face. So, here's the scoop:

I just received a message from a former team member, and it started with a bit of humor - "OA" or overacting, to be precise! Now, that got me laughing, but what came next was even better - a heartfelt message of gratitude.

Now, don't get me wrong; I've received messages before, but this one was different. It's not every day that a former teammate reaches out in such a touching way.

What struck me most was how the values and approaches we discussed during our time working together left a lasting impression. She mentioned that during a chat with the CEO, she couldn't help but recall our conversations. It got me thinking about how the little pearls of wisdom, methodologies and discipline we share can have an impact that ripples far and wide, even into unexpected places.

I genuinely appreciated the message and, more importantly, the sentiment behind it. It's a reminder that the small things we do in our roles can make a big difference in the lives of our colleagues. Plus, it reinforces the power of expressing gratitude.

Now, here's something important: The message mentioned a bit of hesitation about reaching out unexpectedly. Well, let me tell you, NEVER HOLD BACK FROM SHARING YOUR APPRECIATION. Your words, even when unexpected, can light up someone's day. Just like this message did for me.

Let me raise a virtual toast to those beautiful moments of gratitude and to all the wonderful souls who take the time to say, "Thank you." It truly means the world. And to the awesome person who sent me that heartfelt message - a huge "Thank you" right back at you! 💗

Show Don’t Tell

Time to crank up the volume on the epic saga called "Show, Don't Tell!" Your actions? They're like the blockbuster movie that leaves everyone speechless.

Imagine this: you're the director, the star, and the scriptwriter all in one. Every step you take, every choice you make – it's all part of your Oscar-worthy performance.

True pals? They're the first ones in line, popcorn in hand, giving you a standing ovation for your life's masterpiece. They'll be clapping like crazy. And those skeptics? They might as well be stuck in a silent movie, 'cause your actions? They're speaking in IMAX surround sound! Don't waste your energy – they've got earplugs in, anyway! 

So, let's keep painting the town with actions, dazzling the world with brilliance, and never mind the critics who've got their ears plugged with negativity. Your show's the one worth watching! Keep being amazing!

You still are a WonderWoMom. ❤️

You know, being a full-time work-from-home mom, and juggling side hustle online business, there are times when I doubt myself...

I feel like I'm not doing enough.
I worry I'm not giving enough.
I wonder if I'm being enough.

It's a challenge to keep up.
Between their needs,
Their constant demands,
It can get overwhelming.

Sometimes, as a mother, I question myself...

Am I providing enough for everyone?
Am I patient enough with them?
Am I putting in enough effort?

The never-ending laundry,
The cooking that never stops,
And the never-clean house
...it all piles up, doesn't it?

There are moments when I question if I'm loving them enough,
If I'm caring for them enough,
If I'm truly there for them enough.

The pressure can be immense,
It's like there's this invisible weight on my shoulders,
The stress can feel suffocating, it always likes to tag along.
And that mom guilt, it's always lurking.

But here's the kicker, my friend – despite all these doubts and worries, there's one thing I know for sure…

I love them with all my heart.
I pour everything I have into them.
And you know what? For me, that's more than enough.

Because, amidst all the chaos, the running around, and the endless to-dos, there are those precious moments when they smile, when they hug you tight, and when you realize that, yes, you are doing enough. Your love, care, and presence are making a difference. You're juggling so much, yet you're still their superhero.

So, even when you doubt yourself, remember that your love shines through. You're a mother who gives her all, and that, my dear, is nothing short of amazing. You still are a WonderWoMom. ❤️