Saturday, November 4, 2023

Unseen Struggles

In her daily life as a full-time work-from-home mom, she faces countless challenges and pressures. Her family remains unaware of the daily balancing act between her job and household responsibilities, just as her workplace remains oblivious to the intricacies of her personal life.

Her peers, friends, and loved ones may struggle to comprehend the magnitude of the responsibilities she juggles, both old and new. Despite her best efforts to communicate, her partner often fails to fully grasp the immense pressure she experiences.

The bottom line is, she's in this journey largely on her own. Few can truly empathize with her situation, and perhaps, her efforts go undervalued by those around her.

Nevertheless, she soldiers on, fighting through each day, and most importantly, taking care of herself. 🌟💪 Because in the end, she knows that she's her own best advocate, and that's what truly matters.

Wednesday, November 1, 2023

Cherish the Love

It's been over two decades since I had to say goodbye, but you're a significant part of my life.

Your laughter, your quirks, they all continue to bring a smile to my face, even through the tears. Time has passed, but you remain deeply etched in my heart, leaving an indelible mark on my life.

Though you're not here in the physical sense, your memory continues to guide me. Rest in peace, dear son. Your spirit lives on, and I will always hold you close in my heart.

Sunday, October 29, 2023

The Sunday Currently vol. 11

Recapping last two weeks

Sorry for not catching up the last two Sundays; life's been a rollercoaster lately. Let me fill you in on what's been happening in our world. We've welcomed two new furry family members into our home, Coco and Cheeky, who are a 1-year-old and a 3-month-old pair of adorable huskies. It took some time to decide when the right moment was to bring them home. You know, having pets is no joke, and it's a big deal.

We waited for the perfect moment to bring them home, ensuring that everything was in order. This included making our living space pet-friendly, gathering the necessary supplies, and setting up a routine to ensure they receive the love and care they deserve. We're over the moon about this new adventure, but we're also well aware that it's a major responsibility, and we're all in for making their lives the best they can be.

My stepdaughter paid us a visit over the weekend last week. It was a short break, but even with my hectic schedule, I managed to set aside some time for quality time. We made a quick detour to the mall for a short relaxing massage, swung by Jollibee's drive-thru for a tasty treat, and then dropped her off at the bus station. 

The kiddos completed their creative drawing class, and I'm absolutely delighted with their progress. We've decided to keep the art train rolling and dive into the basics of drawing to really hone their skills. These past few weeks have been quite hectic, primarily because the kids had to gear up for their first set of quarterly examsNow that they're on a nice, long break from school, I've finally got a chance to catch up on my writing – a much-needed breather in the midst of our busy schedules.


CURRENTLY 

Reading

Lying in bed, ready to doze off, I'm scrolling through my personal emails to catch up on things.

Writing

Busy making my grocery list for this week, and I've got to add items for our huskies as well.

Listening

Eavesdropping on my kiddos as they discuss the feedback my eldest gave to my youngest son regarding his short story, which scored a 6 out of 10. They're working together to improve his storytelling skills. Heartwarming to see them supporting each other's growth.

Thinking

Contemplating our family vacation plans for the kiddos long break.

Smelling

Savoring the delightful aroma in our room, filled with the fresh scent of bamboo room and linen spray that I personally blended.

Wishing

Just going with the flow, looking for a sign to show me the way. I believe in manifesting, but I also trust that if things don't work out, there's a good reason behind it. Let's see how it all goes down.

Hoping

Just going with the flow, looking for a sign to show me the way. I believe in manifesting, but I also trust that if things don't work out, there's a good reason behind it. Let's see how it all goes down.

Wearing

Rocking the all-pink look with a pink mom mode shirt and matching boxers.

Loving

Absolutely loving our huskies, and the idea of the kids having a week-long vacation has me thrilled. It means I can finally relax without the usual rush of juggling work and school preparations in the mornings.

Wanting

Still craving a chill family vacation, but this time with the new members of our family - Coco and Cheeky,

Needing

I could really use some antioxidants and vitamin C, but it's been over a month since I last made it to the wellness clinic due to my crazy schedule.

Feeling

Got a positive vibe, believing that if something is meant for me, it'll work its way. It'll happen when it's right. But if not, it's because He has bigger and better things in store for me, all in due time.

Saturday, October 21, 2023

Irreplaceable Mom's Love

You know what it's like, being a mom?

A mom kind of mends her own heart while patching up yours when it breaks.

She'll quickly pull your hair back and rush to grab your favorite toy, even if it means being a tad late.

She sort of borrows a bit of her own mojo to help you reach new heights.

Even after a crazy day, she somehow finds the energy to wipe away your tears.

A mom's the one who always sees your value, even when you can't.

She believes you should have nothing but the best and will do everything to make it happen.

A mom knows that her job is more than just being there. It's about being present, about sharing in your joys and wiping away your tears. It's about providing a safe harbor in the stormy sea of life and being your biggest cheerleader on the sidelines.

A mom understands that you're a work in progress, and she's there to help you become the best version of yourself. She'll celebrate your victories and console you in your defeats, all the while helping you find the strength within.

A mom's love is like a guiding light, showing you the way even in the darkest of times. It's a love that nurtures, encourages, never gives up, never wavers, and never fades. a love that truly knows no bounds, and it's a love that you'll carry with you, always and forever.

Saturday, October 14, 2023

The Magic of Being a Mom

Being a mom is a rollercoaster ride, isn't it? It's all about love, laughter, and sometimes a little chaos. But in this adventure, two superpowers shine brightly: patience and understanding.

Picture this: spilled cereal, a tantrum in the toy aisle, or crayon masterpieces on your walls. Patience is your BFF here. It's what keeps you from losing it when things get crazy. Your child is learning, exploring, and making messes along the way. Your patience? It's their safety net, teaching them how to navigate this big, new world.

Understanding is like the glue that holds your mom-and-kid bond together. It's not just about hearing what your child says; it's about getting where they're coming from. When they share their fears, dreams, and even their wild stories, being understanding makes them feel seen and heard. That trust is priceless.

Sure, there are times when it feels like patience is running on empty, and understanding seems like a distant dream. That's okay! Every mom has those moments. Lean on other parents for support, celebrate even the tiniest victories, and remember, being a patient and understanding mom is a journey, not a destination. You're shaping an incredible future, one patient, understanding step at a time. 

Thursday, October 12, 2023

Finding Hope Amidst Darkness

Today, we’re confronted with a heartbreaking news. A family friend who was battling depression, has tragically passed away. It is a painful reminder that depression is an all-too-real struggle, regardless of any skepticism. There are challenges many face in silence, and there are invisible battles and silent struggles many endure.

To anyone battling with depression, please remember that YOU MATTER, and you matter a lot. Your inner strength is far more greater than you may realize. When things get tough and it feels like a heavy weight, remember you're not alone. Reach out, don't hesitate to seek help. There are people who care, who want to stand with you, and who get what you're going through.

Depression doesn't define you; your courage, and incredible spirit do. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. There are people who stand beside you and empathize with your battle. Lean on them when needed and let them remind you of your worth. We will remind YOU ARE WORTHY. Your life is invaluable. 🙏

Tuesday, October 10, 2023

Invisible Battles

"The scars you can't see are the hardest to heal."

Isn't it wild how life paints these invisible marks on us, lingering beneath the surface like secrets whispered to the wind? It's like a battle fought in shadows, where the pain is real but often unnoticed.

You’re a warrior, tending to wounds that aren't visible to the eye. It's like crafting armor from your own resilience, slowly stitching together the tapestry of your spirit.

Healing? It's a journey that only the bravest undertake. It's about embracing your vulnerability, seeking light in the darkness, and finding solace in the fact that even the most delicate scars tell stories of strength.

Raise a glass to those hidden scars, to the battles fought in silence, and to the indomitable spirit that shines through. Share this with a friend who's healing their unseen scars, and let's toast to the beauty of resilience and the power of the human heart.