BE BRAVER EVERYDAY, fighter! You’re allowed to scream. You’re allowed to cry. You’re allowed to be silent. Go take a break! But never give up…

Much more… You are tougher than your demons. You are greater than the pains and worries. Always look for stars. Soon things will be brighter…

- Your family doesn't know how much difficulties and pressure you go through in your daily life or in your job.

- And your work doesn't know the circumstances of your life and your home.

- Your colleagues, your friends and loved ones will not understand the size of the new and old responsibilities that are above you.

- And your partner is always expecting unconditional love and support from you, he won't understand the amount of pressure you go through no matter how much you talk and explain to him.

Bottom line nobody feels for you but yourself. No one will understand what you're really going through and they most likely don't appreciate efforts.

Just keep on keeping on... Fight... take care of yourself. ctto

I hope you end up with someone who plants calm love

Everyone deserves a love that is meant to be calm. 🙏 To sit with themselves, calm their storms, and heal all of their issues without trying to bring anyone else into that chaos.

I hope you end up with someone who plants calm love. 

Someone who acknowledges your feelings, listens to your explanations, and stays kind even after a misunderstanding.

Someone who is safe to be told about your shortcomings and disappointments because you know that they always put themselves in the position to understand you.

Someone who does not resort into fights for petty reasons. Someone who makes you forget that you're carrying too much weight of the world. And someone who always speaks out of pure intentions.

I hope you end up with that someone. Because, if there's anything you deserve, it is someone who learns how to love you in the the most gentle way. Someone who will remind you that love is always meant to be calm. 

ccto

Rewinding time is not possible, but “do-over’s” are. We get another chance to do something right the second time. 

Whatever you lack, I got you. 

Setback? We’ll make a major comeback.

You need support? I’ll be your backbone.

WE’RE A TEAM. For all you are. For all you do. You Got Me. I Got Us.

#momswisdom #strengthbeyondstrength #OKNotToBeOK #noDramajustRealTalk 👍🥰

Choose Your Hard

#ChooseYourHard with a Mind of a Queen and Heart of a Warrior. Protect your relationship/marriage. Don’t let outsiders destroy what took years for you to build.

Telling someone with anxiety to just calm down is like telling someone with epilepsy to just stop having seizures. Don’t invalidate someone because you have no idea. We all have anxieties. Just different levels. Someone may seem and look fine or strong. But who knows what kind of monsters they keep battling in their heads all the time.

Respect! 😉

When choosing a woman who works, you have to accept that she can't handle the house.

If you have chosen a housewife who can take care of you and fully manage your household, you have to accept that she is not earning money.

If you choose an obedient woman, you must accept that she depends on you and you must ensure her life.

If you decide to be with a strong woman, you have to accept that she is tough and she has her own opinion.

If you choose a beautiful woman, then you will have to accept big expenses.

If you decide to be with a successful woman, you must understand that she has character and has her own goals and ambitions.

There are no such things as perfect. Everyone has their own riddle, which makes us unique.

Stop and think 😉... ctto

Reminder to all the Moms out there

A couple of weeks ago a child therapist that I know looked at my kids and said, 

"You're such a good mom" 

Feeling like a total fraud I blurted, "I don't feel like a good mom. The kids are driving me so crazy, I'm losing my temper and falling asleep at night wondering where I'm going to get the patience for another day" 

To which she responded with a statement that I haven't been able to forget,

"Babies cry, it's how they communicate. Toddlers scream, children whinge and teenagers complain. 

Then moms say the words 'for f#$& sake under their breath before ever responding. It's how we communicate. 

But guess what Con? It's better than silence. 

A house full of screaming kids and fighting teenagers and a parent who's being thrown every question and request is a healthy one to me. 

It's the silent children, the scared toddlers, the teenagers that don't come home and the parents who aren't in communication with their children that I worry about. 

And kids don't drive you crazy, you were crazy already. That's why you had them."

And just like that, I felt like a good parent again. 

Deep breaths, you're doing a good job. 

💗👑 Constance Hall