Wake up, Princess!

Love. Very strong word. Though not just a mere word, it's indeed an "action" word. You don't just say I LOVE YOU for some b*llsh*t reason, or say it because you're fond of saying it. Imagine yourself being introduced to someone, and the person says I Love You on your first date. What would you say? What would you feel? Would you believe it? 

Damn! It will scare the hell out of me, seriously! Scary, isn't it?! There is no such thing as love as first sight. That's crap! Whoever invented that phrase overly sensationalized the "thought." It's just a pigment of one's imagination. There's always a period of getting-to-know-you stage before you can finally realize you're falling for someone. Yes, there maybe an attraction at the first glance. But, love?! Hell, no!!! 

Ladies, be very careful! A guy may even promise to give you heaven and earth. Do yourself a favor! Do not fall for that trap! He only wants to get into your pants. Seek for a man who respects you, and will not promise anything and everything to please you. Men master the art of pretenses. 

When I say men, it only pertain to chauvinistic, pimps, players, thugs, ballers and shot callers. An honorable man protects you and your feelings, but not play with it. An honorable man will never lie to you regardless if it's a white-lie. If he did it once, and you let it pass then don't expect he's going to change for you. Because he will never be. 

Drop that idea that if you play a martyr (girlfriend or wife) would mean he'll realize that, and change for you. Change comes from within. As long as you're allowing him to treat you that way, you're permitting him to torture you emotionally. Certainly, you'll end up crying. DO NOT EVER COMPLAIN ON WHAT YOU PERMIT! 

Choosing to be fooled by this type of a guy won't get you anywhere, just in bed or in despair.

Ladies tend to cling on to a relationship not because they've been fooled. I don't believe that! 

We know exactly if someone's fooling us, or lying to us for that matter. Ladies have a strong gut-feel. It's innate! But, you want to know the truth?! We just make our self believe that he is faithful, and he loves you. Truth of the matter is, he's not! Alright, you caught him once cheating on you, and he denied. But, you know exactly he did. You'd rather believe he didn't cheat on you, than admit he did. One way or another, you're just creating a monster out of him. 

Do not be a masochist!!! You're beautiful who deserves respect and right kind of love... Time to wake up from long sleep, Princess! Your real and true Prince Charming awaits you. Do not look for love, it will soon find you!

Love is not being insistent. Love is not an obligation. Love is not a responsibility. It is not selfish and possessive. Love shows respect and trust. Accept for who you are, and whom you are not. Love doesn't tolerate wrong-doings. It helps you to become a better person. It doesn't cheat, lie or humiliate you. But, that's selfishness and ego!

The Link

Professor : You are a Christian, aren’t you, son ?

Student : Yes, sir.

Professor: So, you believe in GOD ?

Student : Absolutely, sir.

Professor : Is GOD good ?

Student : Sure.

Professor: Is GOD all powerful ?

Student : Yes.

Professor: My brother died of cancer even though he prayed to GOD to heal him. Most of us would attempt to help others who are ill. But GOD didn’t. How is this GOD good then? Hmm?

(Student was silent.)

Professor: You can’t answer, can you ? Let’s start again, young fella. Is GOD good?

Student : Yes.

Professor: Is satan good ?

Student : No.

Professor: Where does satan come from ?

Student : From … GOD …

Professor: That’s right. Tell me son, is there evil in this world?

Student : Yes.

Professor: Evil is everywhere, isn’t it ? And GOD did make everything. Correct?

Student : Yes.

Professor: So who created evil ?

(Student did not answer.)

Professor: Is there sickness? Immorality? Hatred? Ugliness? All these terrible things exist in the world, don’t they?

Student : Yes, sir.

Professor: So, who created them ?

(Student had no answer.)

Professor: Science says you have 5 Senses you use to identify and observe the world around you. Tell me, son, have you ever seen GOD?

Student : No, sir.

Professor: Tell us if you have ever heard your GOD?

Student : No , sir.

Professor: Have you ever felt your GOD, tasted your GOD, smelt your GOD? Have you ever had any sensory perception of GOD for that matter?

Student : No, sir. I’m afraid I haven’t.

Professor: Yet you still believe in Him?

Student : Yes.

Professor : According to Empirical, Testable, Demonstrable Protocol, Science says your GOD doesn’t exist. What do you say to that, son?

Student : Nothing. I only have my faith.

Professor: Yes, faith. And that is the problem Science has.

Student : Professor, is there such a thing as heat?

Professor: Yes.

Student : And is there such a thing as cold?

Professor: Yes.

Student : No, sir. There isn’t.

(The lecture theater became very quiet with this turn of events.)

Student : Sir, you can have lots of heat, even more heat, superheat, mega heat, white heat, a little heat or no heat. But we don’t have anything called cold. We can hit 458 degrees below zero which is no heat, but we can’t go any further after that. There is no such thing as cold. Cold is only a word we use to describe the absence of heat. We cannot measure cold. Heat is energy. Cold is not the opposite of heat, sir, just the absence of it.

(There was pin-drop silence in the lecture theater.)

Student : What about darkness, Professor? Is there such a thing as darkness?

Professor: Yes. What is night if there isn’t darkness?

Student : You’re wrong again, sir. Darkness is the absence of something. You can have low light, normal light, bright light, flashing light. But if you have no light constantly, you have nothing and its called darkness, isn’t it? In reality, darkness isn’t. If it is, well you would be able to make darkness darker, wouldn’t you?

Professor: So what is the point you are making, young man ?

Student : Sir, my point is your philosophical premise is flawed.

Professor: Flawed ? Can you explain how?

Student : Sir, you are working on the premise of duality. You argue there is life and then there is death, a good GOD and a bad GOD. You are viewing the concept of GOD as something finite, something we can measure. Sir, Science can’t even explain a thought. It uses electricity and magnetism, but has never seen, much less fully understood either one. To view death as the opposite of life is to be ignorant of the fact that death cannot exist as a substantive thing.

Death is not the opposite of life: just the absence of it. Now tell me, Professor, do you teach your students that they evolved from a monkey?

Professor: If you are referring to the natural evolutionary process, yes, of course, I do.

Student : Have you ever observed evolution with your own eyes, sir?

(The Professor shook his head with a smile, beginning to realize where the argument was going.)

Student : Since no one has ever observed the process of evolution at work and cannot even prove that this process is an on-going endeavor. Are you not teaching your opinion, sir? Are you not a scientist but a preacher?

(The class was in uproar.)

Student : Is there anyone in the class who has ever seen the Professor’s brain?

(The class broke out into laughter. )

Student : Is there anyone here who has ever heard the Professor’s brain, felt it, touched or smelt it? No one appears to have done so. So, according to the established Rules of Empirical, Stable, Demonstrable Protocol, Science says that you have no brain, sir. With all due respect, sir, how do we then trust your lectures, sir?

(The room was silent. The Professor stared at the student, his face unfathomable.)

Professor: I guess you’ll have to take them on faith, son.

Student : That is it sir … Exactly ! The link between man & GOD is FAITH. That is all that keeps things alive and moving.

P.S.

I believe you have enjoyed the conversation. And if so, you’ll probably want your friends / colleagues to enjoy the same, won’t you?

Forward this to increase their knowledge … or FAITH.

By the way, that student was EINSTEIN.

What are you? A f*ckin' bird!!!

Like an ostrich with its head in the sand. You who have been trying to remain blissfully ignorant of a situation. But hiding from it won't make it go away. 


Just because you pretend you don't have a problem doesn't mean you don't have a problem. But the good news is that "the problem" you have isn't really a problem at all, but an opportunity. Once you start exploring your options for dealing with it, the situation will open a door to something wonderful and unanticipated.


Now, think!!!

My One Last Rhapsody

Recently, I've been surrounded with good and happy people which makes it a lot easier to uncarry the burdens. I TOOK THAT first step. And now, it's up to me to stick up with that...

At times, I really wanted to scream and shout to tell everyone that I do not deserve to be treated just like that. I have done nothing wrong. But yes, I preferred to be silent. I stayed calm. Chaos couldn't be taken out by calling out for a war. I somehow realized, there's no need to explain myself. I may please some, but most of them will just believe the unknown. It doesn't matter what has been said, who said it, and to whom it was said... Bottomline is, it hit me so hard! I'm just human! And yes, I really wanted to retaliate, and revenge for that matter. If I did, what does that make me?!

A friend of mine once told me: "We have to be logical at all times." She stressed out a very good point. In all situations, we have to think first before we take appropriate actions. It's being mature! One way or another, if we use our logic then we'll be able to set aside all our emotions and come up with a sound decision.

It took a lot of patience to stay calm. It's in my nature to have a high tolerance for rude people. One day, the truth will come out. For sure, "to you" who's been treating me badly. In time, your own accusations will definitely slap and hit through your own face. Well as for me, I've been awakened... And I have found out the truth that's why I took that first step. It wasn't an easy decision. It took a lot of courage and determination.

I DO NOT BELIEVE IN DESTINY. But, I believe in karmic reaction. If we do good deeds, we'll earn our reward. If we do bad, then we'll pay for it in due time. I have paid my debts, and I learned so much from it.

So now, I'm looking forward for serendipity - "happy accident" or "pleasant surprise"; specifically, the accident of finding something good or useful without looking for it. All of these burdens will be over soon... And when that time comes, it's gonna be worth all the pain.

Butterflies from Heaven

A death in the family leaves a void that cannot be filled. No one can ever take the place of this individual in the world. However, there must be time to mourn the fact that things will never be the same. One minute he was here and now he is gone. The human mind must be allowed to sit with this reality. Mourning is a necessary part of the human experience. If it is ignored, a general feeling of sadness may pervade the whole family.

My eyes filled up with tears as I heard the news

It never occurred to me, how much I could lose 

I find myself wishing that it wasn't real

Every time I think about it, pain is all I can feel

Tears fall from my eyes, I can barely see

But my heart tells me that he'll always be with me

I’m glad he feels no pain now-he lives in a perfect land

I can still feel the soft touch on my shoulder of his loving hand

I lie in bed and cry at night

And I don’t feel any better in the morning light

And I will love and miss him forever

Until the day we are again together.

Together in that perfect place above,

Filled with caring, sharing and love

But until that day comes- I will wipe my tears away.

And hopefully see him again someday

A thousand times we needed you

A thousand times we cried

If love alone could have saved you

you never would have died

A heart of gold stopped beating

two twinkling eyes closed to rest

God broke our hearts to prove he only took the best

never a day goes by that you’re not in my heart and my soul.

We'll miss you MJ! You'll now be with my lil angel... 

Tormenting Feeling

Do you feel guilty about something you did in the past? Do you often think you are a bad person? Do you think you do not deserve to have what you wish? Are you aware of how a feeling of guilt can hurt you and people around you? Do you wish to learn how to let go of this negative feeling that is probably giving you much suffering?

Feeling guilty can be a night mare for some people that have a problem with anxiety or with a similar disorder. It is no wonder that guilt is what keeps a person as a prisoner in anxious state. 

You may wish to get rid of all these thoughts that give you a feeling of guilt but you just simply can't succeed in doing it. This feeling of guilt is coming back to you all the time. Don't try to simply forget about these thoughts that are making you feel guilty, because you will not succeed. You are supposed to accept all thoughts that are giving you pain, and live with them for some time. In time they will perish or won't present a problem for you when you remember about them. 

While feeling guilty can be a cause for you anxiety, it is much more common for guilt to arise when anxiety has already developed. Don't be surprised if you didn't feel guilty till now. When in anxiety state, your feelings can play tricks on you very easily. Your emotions can very easily and quickly respond to every real or assumed guilt that you present in your consciousness, so there is a chance that your thoughts are wondering from one guilt to another, tormenting you and your psyche.

Some sort of Manifestation

Receive "The Promise"

And here is "the verse of hope." After God spent a few verses setting up the background of what the Jews were to do now and how long they would have to do it, He tells them that He has great plans for them.

Simply receive this promise as your own. Yes it was to the Jews thousands of years ago, but these verses set up God's desire for all humanity if they will only do the next step.

I speak of hope... I speak in humility... No time for hatred. All of these burdens will be over soon. 

Breathe.

Inhale.

Exhale.